Random

So today as I was walking home from buying groceries, a lady I didn’t know stopped me and invited me into her yard. Figuring that a front yard is pretty safe, I accepted the invitation. The reason she gave me for inviting me in was she saw I was new and from out of this country and as a mother she felt the need to invite me in, adding that if her son where in another country she hopes someone would take care of him.

As the conversation progressed I began to wonder if she had a few alterior motives for inviting me in. She asked me several times if I could teach her daughter English in exchange for her daughter teaching me Thai. She also repeatedly commented on her daughters beauty.

I think maybe I need a culture lesson on ending conversations. I ended up sitting there in the front yard for three hours. During that time I met the father, the son (who is my age), and the daughter who just graduated from high school last year. I eventually said I needed to leave. At which point they asked if they could see me home. When I accepted, they drove me the block and a half to my room.


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2 responses to “Random”

  1. Melissa N. Avatar
    Melissa N.

    Funny. I’ve experienced the other end of the spectrum- except, in my experience, the guys are usually much more forward and skip to the point themselves…it’s definitely a learning experience!!

  2. Parn Avatar
    Parn

    Micah,
    In this case, a cultural lesson is needless. Comes to this, I would say, awkward situation, a normal excuse is ok.

    to be honest and I think u felt it too, this lady might have a hidden agenda when she invited you in her house. Be carfull! You could fall into trap. If you feel like they are getting too close to you then make yourself comfortable and do what you need to do. Remember, you are now living in Esarn where hooking up with Farang is trendy.
    I am sure that more of this is coming since you are a young Farang living in E-Sarn ha ha ha
    But hey man, if you like her, go for it! ha ha ha

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